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How do you bring up cuckolding without scaring them off? - bigbill1 - 22-04-2025
So here’s my dilemma—I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost a year, and things are going great, like really great. But I’ve had these cuckold fantasies for a while, and I have no idea how to bring it up without sounding like a total freak. I don’t wanna wreck the vibe, but I also don’t wanna keep hiding it. Anyone ever actually had that convo go well? Or is it just always super awkward?
RE: How do you bring up cuckolding without scaring them off? - kosiasim - 23-04-2025
Man, I was in the exact same boat. What helped me was easing into the topic using stories from the cuckold blog. I sent her one that was more on the emotional side, just to feel out her reaction. Turns out, she was lowkey into it! That site’s got all kinds of angles—fun, raw, romantic, awkward. Great convo starters, honestly.
RE: How do you bring up cuckolding without scaring them off? - didinadi - 23-04-2025
I mean, it’s all about timing and trust. If you’ve built a strong emotional foundation, being honest about your fantasies shouldn’t be scary. It’s not for everyone, sure, but if the relationship’s solid, exploring weird little corners of your desires can bring you even closer. Just don’t drop it out of nowhere during dinner or something, lol.